Unlocking Your Big Gorgeous Goals: The Mindset Shift You Need to Achieve Success
Have you ever felt like your dreams were just out of reach? Like the life you envision for yourself is reserved for someone else—someone bolder, more experienced, or just plain luckier? It’s time to change that thinking. It’s time to embrace Big Gorgeous Goals—the kind that light a fire in your soul, stretch your limits, and transform your life and business in ways you never imagined.
The Problem with Thinking Small
Too often, we get trapped in what I call “small thinking.” We set safe, achievable goals because they feel manageable. We check off to-do lists and meet benchmarks, but we never push ourselves beyond what we already know we can do. And that’s exactly what holds us back.
Women are conditioned to think practically, to avoid risk, and to strive for balance rather than boldness. But what if we stopped playing it safe? What if we set goals so ambitious they blocked out the sun? That’s where the magic happens.
What Are Big Gorgeous Goals?
A Big Gorgeous Goal isn’t just a dream—it’s a challenge. It’s a goal so bold, so audacious, that it makes you a little nervous just thinking about it. It might be launching a multi-million-dollar business, securing a book deal, expanding your brand into global markets, or completely pivoting your career to follow your passion.
The key difference between a Big Gorgeous Goal and a regular goal? It requires you to grow. You can’t stay the same person and achieve it—you must evolve, push your limits, and develop new skills and mindsets along the way.
Shifting Your Mindset from Safe to Bold
If you’re ready to stop thinking small and start playing bigger, here are three key mindset shifts to make:
1. Think Beyond What Feels Possible
If your goal feels totally within reach, it’s probably too small. Ask yourself: What’s the biggest, boldest version of my dream? Allow yourself to imagine possibilities beyond your current reality.
2. Accept the 10/90 Rule
Big Gorgeous Goals are only 10% about vision and 90% about execution. The dream is just the beginning—the real work is in breaking it down, making a plan, and taking consistent action. Success isn’t about luck; it’s about persistence.
3. Embrace the Growth Journey
One of the biggest reasons people avoid setting bold goals is the fear of failure. But failure isn’t a sign to stop—it’s a sign that you’re learning and evolving. Every challenge, every setback, is part of the journey. Keep going.
Your Call to Action
Take a moment today to reflect on your own Big Gorgeous Goal. Write it down. Say it out loud. Start imagining what it would take to make it happen. And then? Take the first step.
The life you want is waiting for you—but you have to be bold enough to claim it.
What’s your Big Gorgeous Goal? Share it in the comments below—I’d love to hear it!
